š¦ The Sharq Siblings | Louis and Megās Unplanned Arrival
Some gliders come into our lives with a plan. Others arrive with a twist. Meet Louis Armstrong and Megasharqāa pair we lovingly call the Sharq Siblingsāwhose story didnāt go quite how we expected, but found a perfect place in the Grove all the same.
Meg (left) and Louis (right) eagerly awaiting treats
š°ļø A November Arrival
Back in November of 2023, we welcomed Louis and Megasharq into our home. After the loss of Wilford, we were searching for a new companion for Benji, who was now living alone. Because sugar gliders are deeply social creatures, finding Benji a new friend became a top priority.
We were told that Louis was already 15 years oldāa remarkable age for a gliderāand that Meg was around 4 years old. Louis had already been neutered by the time he came to us, and his calm, elder energy reminded us of Wilford, who had bonded so well with Benji. Our hope was that Louis, being mellow and non-threatening, would help Benji ease into a new friendship. If things went well, we planned to have Benji neutered too, and maybe, just maybe, they could all live together as a trio.
š¬ The Best-Laid Plans...
But Benji had other ideas.
Despite our hopes, Benji just didnāt click with Louis or Meg. We tried introducing them carefully, multiple times, and every time it ended in squabbles and stress. Benji made it very clear that this was not his new family.
So we made the decision to keep them separated and shift our focus. The plan had changedābut that didnāt make Louis and Meg any less welcome.
š Finding Their Place
Louis and Meg came to us as an already bonded pair, and while they arenāt blood relatives, their bond was deep and affectionateāchosen siblings in every sense that mattered. Though they hadnāt become Benjiās new companions, they quickly became part of our family. Their connection to each other was gentle and steady, and watching them brought us so much joy.
And while they didnāt bond with Benji, they did bond quickly with usāthanks to one powerful tool: treats.
Meg enjoying her favorite snack: anything Louis wonāt steal from her!
From the very beginning, Louis and Meg were incredibly treat-motivated, which made them easy to win over with time, patience, and snacks. Itās one of the reasons the name āSharq Siblingsā fits so wellāthey were always popping out of their pouch, ready to swoop in on a snack like little sugar sharks.
Sometimes the gliders we bring home donāt fit the role we imagined for themābut they always find the role that was meant for them. Thatās just how things go here in the Grove.
Thereās always room for more love.
š§ A Quick Note on Neutering & Introductions
When it comes to introducing male gliders, neutering can make a big difference. Neutered males often have reduced territorial behavior and tend to be more accepting of new companions.
At the time we introduced Benji to Louis and Meg, Benji was still quite young, and we hoped that his age and temperament would help him adjust without needing to be neutered right away. But looking back, and knowing what we know now, itās very possible that things might have gone more smoothly had Benji been neutered before the introductions.
As glider owners, weāre always learningāand sometimes that means looking back and realizing weād do things differently next time. And thatās okay. Glider care is a journey, and every glider teaches us something new.
Soon, weāll share how Benji finally found the companion he was waiting forāand how a little glider with a dark-tipped tail helped him write a new chapter.
Until then,
šļø The Grove Keepers